synonyms discuss,
argue,
debate mean to discourse about in order to reach conclusions or to convince.
discuss implies a sifting of possibilities especially by presenting considerations pro and con <discussed the need for a new highway>.
argue implies the offering of reasons or evidence in support of convictions already held
<argued that the project would be too costly>.
debate suggests formal or public argument between opposing parties
<debated the merits of the amendment>; it may also apply to deliberation with oneself
<I'm debating whether I should go>.
The artistry of putting a positive spin on any outcome may be beneficial in the short term but over any longer period of time becomes just as detrimental as infighting over personalities, in my opinion.
I sincerely hope and trust that no negative sanctions are placed on those for whom such a sweet pill is difficult to swallow, and that dissenting views are given the space and time they merit in order to maintain a full discussion on the available information.
Be well
